Over the last several weeks, our world and our emotions have been rocked again by inexplicable violence and the unfathomable killing of innocent children and adults in what should be safe places. Watching news reports, as well as hearing about these shootings, have the potential to activate a trauma response (especially fear or anxiety) in children, families, and the larger community. There is no easy answer. No single remedy for healing. But, as dedicated champions for children and families, we have compiled strength-based tools from multiple trusted and respected sources. And, please, never forget that Starfish is here for you. Methods for healing High profile acts of violence, particularly in a school, can confuse and frighten children who may feel they're in danger or worry that their friends or loved-ones are in jeopardy. This is true even if the incident didn't occur locally. Children identify with other children regardless of location---which may trigger signs of … [Read more...]
Archives for May 2022
Ann Kalass: Looking to Retirement
A personal note from Starfish CEO Ann Kalass Dear friends, When I came to Starfish Family Services in 2007, I made two commitments on Day One. First, was to always do the right thing for children and families, even when it was hard. Perhaps most when it was hard. Second, was to steward the existing Starfish culture of loyalty to mission, teamwork, and deep love of children and families. In the nearly 15 years since beginning this journey, my own daughters have become amazing young adults, I’ve witnessed new teachers become master educators changing lives every day---and therapists partner with families to heal and build skills and resilience. I’ve shed tears as clients from the Starfish Family crossed a graduation stage, found stability and health, and discovered their power. I’ve sat in countless classrooms where children are joyfully playing, having their curiosity cheered on, and a lifelong love of learning is being born. No two days have been the same. All of them … [Read more...]
Starfish blog: Respect, support & #ThankATeacher
"Despite all of its challenges, this past year has made me prouder than ever to be an educator. It has been an honor to watch you rise to every occasion and meet every challenge with compassion, creativity, and care for all of your students."—National Education Association President Becky Pringle We are saying 'thank you’ today, this week, and throughout the year, to the extraordinary educators at Starfish Family Services, and the entire education team that supports them. For many, teachers are some of our first heroes. They often inspire us to believe in ourselves in ways we never imagined. They teach us how to shine. Yet, in recent years the job has become so much more complicated. Every day teachers are also asked to be doctors, mental health experts, emergency-readiness experts, technology gurus, referees, chefs, fundraisers, coaches, and advocates. The pandemic demanded that educators show even more grit and determination. And they became even more indispensable to … [Read more...]